by mutton on Sun Apr 13, 2008 9:33 pm
I kept my site free for about 7 months and got the membership up to about 5000. I was making money from AdSense, about $300 a month. Male members would sign up and send emails that were less than polite to women members. Making the site a pay site stopped a lot of the jerks from participating. I was doing all my billing thru PayPal even though the PalPal module only worked about half the time. Every month I was making about $200 more than the previous month and the AdSense revenue continued to climb also. This went on for about 11 months and the site was having crippling problems with the dedicated server (DWHS rot in Hell!) being down a lot of the time and with bugs in the software. Customers would write me and say it was the worst money they ever spent. One Sunday evening in late November I got an email from PayPal telling me that my PayPal account was cancelled and I could never have another PayPal account because I had violated their terms of use by doing billing for an adult website. Huh? I don't allow adult material on my site. PayPal never explains or reconsiders their decisions. That was it. Without revenue there was no point in advertising so pretty soon instead of 60 people on at one time there were maybe 4. I did take my time checking out new servers and billing, making sure to select companies that were the best possible, that answered the phones at 3 in the morning with knowledgeable people. I traded about 15 emails with Webscribble asking them to help me switch servers and upgrade me from V2 to V3 and got the "Who's on first" response. Totally f******g clueless, like most of the time you ask them for support. Paul has been like an guardian angel here, one man doing what a staff of 90 from Eastern Europe can't do. The site's running again so much better, hasn't crashed yet and membership is climbing again. But for some reason it's pretty rare for someone to pay for membership, only a few a week. I haven't figured that out yet.