another bug has been brought to my attention from a site owner using the contact stamps set up
the contact stamps only work for sending a message but not when replying to a message
the only way to let people with contact stamps reply to a message was to set non-paying members can reply to mail (to on)
but if you don't want non paying members to be able to reply you were stuck...
I recoded the send_message to allow for using contact stamps on reply to email
if anyone needs this let me know
Paul
